Monday, September 23, 2013

Interview Part 2: About erotica/porn/sex

Today's "interview" is a little shorter, but the questions are a lot more personal too =P

Do you ever masturbate when reading erotic stories? Do you watch porn and masturbate? Do you prefer to read stories or watch movies? 
I'm going to go ahead and answer these three questions together since they kind of intertwine =)  I've always been more of a book person than a movie or television person.  With my college boyfriend we would sometimes watch porn, and I downloaded a LOT of files from Kazaa (hahaha, remember Kazaa?!) looking for the ones that appealed to me.  I downloaded hundreds, possibly thousands of files, over the course of a couple years and the collection of ones that I kept that turned me on was about 30.  
For me, watching porn is a couples activity, I will very rarely watch it on my own, and when I do it's kind of like foreplay... I watch it to get in the mood, maybe play with myself a little bit, and then I go find one of my favorite stories to get off to.  When I found Literotica, that was the first time I started masturbating.  I actually didn't masturbate before I had sex (weird, right?), but the stories on Lit would get me so hot that if my boyfriend wasn't around I would take care of myself.  Now when I masturbate it's with one of my favorite stories in my other hand ;)

What do you fantasize about while masturbating?
Since I'm usually reading, I fantasize about what's happening in the story that I'm reading.  Sometimes I'm in the place of the main character, sometimes I'm just watching the action.  My favorites tend to involve multiple partners, a little bit of pain, and anal.  

Is there anything you've tried in real life that you'd never write about and vice versa?
Hmm... wow, I can think of TONS of things I've written about but never actually tried (caning comes to mind, as do most of the more brutal scenes I write) and I don't think I will EVER try... I'm not sure there's anything I've tried and not written about in one form or another.  Even my more embarrassing sex moments came up in First Time Blunders.  Granted, they're mixed in with my friends' embarrassing moments so that no one will know which are MINE, but they're still out there LOL.

Have you ever swallowed cum? 
I'm definitely a "swallower."  The taste doesn't bother me and I find something incredibly satisfying about giving head and getting a guy off with something that requires a little bit more effort on my part.  I don't really think about it as a "reward" as I sometimes describe it my stories, but there's something sexy about it to me. 

Have you ever thought about writing a movie?
Honestly no.  Script-writing is incredibly different from writing a story or book and I kinda suck at it.  I also don't find it to be a lot of fun - not that I've ever tried to write a porno, but I once tried to write a play.

Would you ever let someone make one of your stories into a porno?
Um... I'd probably want to see the script before I agreed.  Also, strange as this may sound, I'm not entirely sure I support the porn industry.  If a woman enjoys her job, that's one thing, but if she's in it because she feels like she has to be because of the money thing... I dunno.  It's kind of a weird area for me.

What's your favorite sexual position?
I'm so boring in real life... missionary.  LOL.  It's the one that I get off in the easiest, when the guy's on top of me and I can feel his weight over me and every thrust is grinding against my clit... I've found that I can still get off in other positions, but it takes a lot more work.  The worst one for me is me on top.  I enjoy it in a lot of ways because I get to see how much my man is enjoying himself, but it's almost impossible for me to get off when I'm on top.  I can get really close, I just can't seem to get over the edge.

If you were single, would you be willing to get gangbanged by 10 hot guys? 
I honestly don't know how to answer this question LOL.  Um... maybe?  Multiple men is definitely one of my favorite fantasies... the main problem being that I'm definitely a one-man kind of woman when I'm in a relationship.  I suppose that if I were single and there were 10 men that I was reasonably attracted to and they said they wanted to gangbang, then I would be willing to try.  I have no idea how well I would succeed lol.  It's a great fantasy and a fun thing to write about, but I can't imagine how sore I would be afterwards!


  1. Thank you for your incredilby candid replies. that was very very interesting. I also loved to see that a lot of the authors you listed are ones I like to read!!!!! I was so excited to see Tammy Pierce in that list, I just love her heroines!!!! Great interview!!!!!!!!!

    1. I figured, why answer questions if I'm not going to do so fully? =) Tamora Pierce's Alanna: The First Adventure was actually the first fantasy book I ever read and it got me going on reading sci-fi/fantasy at an ALARMING rate lol. I think the only series I've been disappointed with in her were Becca's books and it was only the third one that disappointed me, I loved Terrier and Bloodhound.